My story started in 2018. I was at the gym and there was a guy in a towel with his hard cock tenting out the front so much that his dick and balls were displayed. I know it’s not an uncommon thing. I’ve seen loads of dicks and some of them were getting hard. I was into a lot of sports in college so I’ve seen more than a few exhibitionists who just don’t seem to care that their dick is out and hanging heavy. This guy was real hard.

It was a busy locker room but no one seemed to notice or care when this guy sat down and let his cock just bounce out hard as a flagpole. He was looking at his phone and just giving his big dick some rubs. I couldn’t have been the only guy who noticed him. It wasn’t like he was fully jacking it in front of everyone but he wasn’t trying to hide it either.

I just kind of pretended not to notice but then I realized I was getting hard and I decided to take my time and just let it happen.

I’ve never been a show off. I’m not one of those guys who walks to the showers with his cock swinging. I’m not a prude either. Mostly I just let my towel hang and hide my dick naturally like that. I guess I’m one of those guys who doesn’t flaunt it but at the same time I’m not the pussy who looks for another cubicle if a curtain won’t close.

I look good. I stay in shape. I’ve got a nice dick. If guys want to see it that’s all good by me.

Seeing this guy did something to me and I started just messing with stuff in my locker while my hard cock swung around in front of me. It wasn’t that I didn’t care if anyone saw it I felt like I WANTED guys to see it.

When I looked again the other guy was gone.

I walked to the showers with my towel over my shoulder and my dick leading the way. There were guys all around and I know at least a couple of them must have seen my dick before they saw me but no one said anything. I got a weird buzz from it and when I got to my shower I left the curtain open and jacked off. There wasn’t anyone opposite me until after I pumped my load. It was a good jack, only lasted just a few minutes but I finished big and splashed it up the cubicle wall.

An older guy took the cubicle on the other side and didn’t close his curtain either. My cock was empty but still hard and I knew he liked it because his dick got hard and he jacked it trying to pretend he wasn’t looking.

I didn’t see him finish but I think he did.

Even though I already shot off it was a horny buzz knowing the sight of my cock had made another man spooge his load.

So that was the first time I did anything like that. I still don’t know exactly what it was that triggered it. All those times in college when I was around other guys, even in open showers with dicks everywhere, and nothing like this ever entered my mind. Even seeing boners starting before never got me hard or thinking about jacking it. I knew a lot of awesome guys in college who were a lot more typically attractive and with big cocks. When I think about those times now I’m amazed I didn’t discover all this about myself back then.

The only explanation I can think of is that I either just blocked it all out because I didn’t want to think about it or maybe my interests really have changed. Just thinking about those showers with my college buddies gets me so hard but at the time it’s like I was a monk and didn’t even notice other penises lol

Something about that guy at that time and in that place just flicked something on in my head I guess.

I didn’t worry about it at all. I guess it could be confusing for some guys but I was single and I’ve never been bothered by sexuality. My cousin is gay and I have a lot of LGBT+ friends so it’s not like I would be freaked out about my own sexuality. I was more curious about why it happened then and what I was into.

My porn habits changed and I got more interested in dick. I knew I still loved pussy, none of that had changed. I tried watching gay porn but it didn’t do much for me after the first 5-10 minutes.

Gradually I kind of worked out that I have a kink for cocks, casual male nudity, the whole “bromo” thing. I don’t like anal, not into sucking much, but when it comes to guys comparing cocks, jacking off, helping each other and spooging together I get SO INTO IT.

I never thought I would be jacking it to stories but reading things like the BuddyBate Patreon (RIP, I loved it so much :'( ) made me shoot off so many loads!

Nothing is hotter for me than a bunch of bros all getting their dicks out and jacking off together. I love the videos of circle jerks where guys are talking pussy, admiring their dicks and showing each other how they jack it. I fucking LOVE it when a bunch of cocks are all rubbing and slapping together and guys are grabbing a bros meat and talking about how it feels.

The sight of cocks squirting cum and their buddies immediately starting to shoot too gets me shooting every time!

So that’s how I became a Buddy Bator.

I didn’t know much about it at the time. I had no idea that there were so many men who were just into masturbating with other men like this. It took a while to work it all out and discover the various websites and communities but when I did it felt like everything really made sense to me. I’m mostly straight, but I like dicks and jacking it with guys, that’s it.

I’ve been lucky enough to find some good buddies since I got into this and I can write about those experiences if you like. Mostly it was just other guys watching and showing off at the urinals or the gym but I have met up with some guys specifically for jacking it and it’s been a lot of fun. I haven’t done much since the whole Covid thing started but I’m looking forward to getting back out there for more jacking with dudes soon.